It’s no secret that I think award-winning Nili Yelin is the coolest person around. She's combined her professional theatre career with mommyhood to create The Storybook MomTM.
Using an interactive, educational and highly amusing style,
Ms. Yelin likes to call her story-telling, “Sit Down Stand-up.” Founded
on the high-minded principle that children like to see a grown-up act
silly, Yelin entertains a hard-core audience of two-years olds—and their
fatigued moms and dads. She delivers a full performance of the written
word, even though the words are few, rhyming, and surrounded by
pictures.
Along with her many weekly storytimes, Yelin regularly hosts the annual Chicago Tribune Printers Row Lit Fest Children's Stage. She story-tells for the Field Museum and their podcasts for children in association with The Crown Family Play Lab, The Shedd Aquarium, Museum of Science and Industry, and various venues around Chicago and the suburbs. Yelin has expressed the lofty goal of having “every kid in Chicago know their ABC’s backwards before they enter pre-school.”
Ms. Yelin’s outreach includes after-school programs with the Chicago Mayor's office, homeless shelters and domestic violence centers; The Center for Companies That Care on their corporate literacy initiative, Terrific Tales, performing in schools and libraries on Chicago’s South Side; Bernie's Book Bank, a not-for-profit organization that collects and distributes books to low income schools; and Creatively Caring and Sunrise Homes, storytelling for children with autism and special needs and older people with dementia.
Yelin has appeared on WGN TV News and in numerous magazines, newspapers, websites and blogs. Awarded "Best Storyteller" by Make It Better Magazine and Time Out Chicago Magazine, Yelin is currently working with Storyola (tm) on a storybook app. She is also writing her debut book on techniques of storytelling.
I'm so delighted to host her!
How did you get involved with storytelling for
kids?
In 2000 there was
an actor’s strike and I was unemployed for 6 months, I saw a sign in a baby
store looking for an Opening Day Storyteller so I called and was hired! I had
read in my children’s preschools so I just brought a bunch of books and my kids
and went for it! The store owner asked me to do it weekly, people saw me, and
word of mouth spread thanks to the Mommy Network and it just blew up into a
full time thing! I found my passion combining my love of books and kids and
with my schedule of carpooling it worked right into my schedule. I had taken my
kids to STORYTIMES and was usually bored and thought that kids should be
exposed to real performances of words and as a trained actress and stand up
comedian I just meshed it all together to create my own”sit down, stand up”
style of storytelling. The hours are much better than when I was doing standup
too. I used to joke that I wish I could sit down and do comedy in the daytime
and lo and behold that is what I ended up doing! Also taking care of a little
being is hard all day long so I wanted caregivers to be able to laugh and drink
some coffee together too,
How is
storytelling for kids different than for adults in the less
obvious ways—and tell us about the “giggle level” AND about the
photo on your website of a baby dressed as Raggedy Ann with a red
nose?
Performing for
babies takes being so present in the moment and using focus and energy to keep
their attention. They are he most honest audiences in existence, and you feel
when they are engaged and believe in you and the feedback is immediate. I truly
get in the zone and feel more alive and free when I interact with babies and
toddlers and they respond to my total openness and lack of self consciousness,.
The sillier and more spontaneous I am the more we connect, I really believe I
am a 4 year old, for some reason that is my golden zone. I learned English when
I was four, having come to NYC from Israel and I believe my relationship to
words and my love of words, and books really solidified at that age.
I used to write
some of the Wishbone Books, based on the PBS series about a little
dog who wisecracked his way through classic literature, and I remember how
much I used to love to go to bookstores to talk to kids. The energy is so
different than standing in front of adults! You get such an appreciative
audience. So my question is now about to segue into babies. How do you
engage a group of babies with storytelling?! How are you able to
get them to interact with you?
My core fan base
is 2-5 years old and babies are a whole different ballgame. I first did a fully
baby aged STORYTIME at Monica + Andy 5 years ago and I remember it took all my
30 plus years of training and experience to keep them engaged. At that young
age babies cannot sit still and listen to stories but they parallel play so
it’s all about using tone, rhythm, energy and lots of physicality. I remember
being drained after the first 45 minute STORYTIME with all babies because I had
to use my body a s voice more actively but it is also exhilarating and
establishing a connection with love and books at that young age is powerful. I
put out board books for them to hold, and they eat them up, literally. I love
that babies are so physically curious about books and I encourage tactile
interaction. I spend a lot of money replacing board books but it’s worth it.
You also tell
stories at Monica & Andy, which has some of the most adorable
kids clothing I’ve seen. Want to talk about that?
I learned about
this incredible baby and toddler organic clothing brand when I read an article
in Forbes or Crain’s about this new brand opening in Chicago in 2014 and that
the founder, Monica Royer wanted to create an experiential retail experience
with classes and events, including STORYTIME. I was the biggest storyteller in
Chicago, (and there weren’t many to begin with), and I was thinking, “Who is
going to be their storyteller.? I met with Monica and she said let’s try one
and see and as soon as I did the one she asked me to come back every
week.
She was one of 12
weekly clients and I was doing festivals and parties every weekend and after 18
years of that I was thinking it would be great to do this all the time but
would love to do it in one place with a salary and benefits.
Monica and I
became friends and started meeting for coffee and she saw something in me that
she wanted to help nurture, to help me grow as a business and as a brand and
then all of a sudden the manager position in the new New York City location
opened up and my gut told me to seek the position of returning to my old Upper
West neighborhood where I had lived in the eighties and nineties and as long as
I could still do STORYTIME as part of the job I was in!! It was a huge risk and
life change but I knew I had to go for it. I felt so torn to leave the
community and work I had built in Chicago but I felt with my own kids grown up
I wanted to go back to my hometown and explore my roots. When I first moved to
America we lived with my grandparents on the Lower East Side and it has also
inspired me to write a children’s book about that area and my
grandparents.
I got a rush when
I saw you read No, David by David Shannon, and Click Clack
Moo, which I used to read to my son when he was little and I still
remember the drawings and the story. I believe stories imprint on us, don’t
you? And do you think that is part of why it’s so important for kids
to hear stories? And, what’s yoru favorite storytelling book now?
Yes, this is
everything! Books from our childhood and the books from our children’s
childhood are treasure boxes of memories and who we were when we read
these....my Dad was a voracious reader and just seeing him in the act of
reading colored my entire world. Books are friends, you can take them with you,
they open up the world and make you feel less alone. I love the moment when you
read something and are blown away that the author put in words a feeling you
had and identified it deeply.
My current faves
are always all books by the late and great Amy Krouse Rosenthal, my mentor and
muse. Also Mo Willems, Matthew Cordell and the Pete The Cat series.
I love quirky,
funny, and dramatic emotions which also center on huge life lessons. Since kids
are always falling down and over during STORYTIME I get to I,port the biggest
life lesson which is When you fall down you just get back up....
What’s obsessing you now and why?
I am writing my
first picture books, I consider myself an adapter and dramatist of picture
books and have read thousands for decades so I believe what I write has to be
worthy of the best that I have encountered and the precision of the words and
story has to be spot on,...having done voice over work and been directed on
individual performance of words is a great example of the detail and
specificity a picture book demands, and I have been working in various ideas for
years. I get sick of a lot of them and get stuck and put them away but I
currently have been working on a book that I feel great about, and have the
feeling I get when I read my favorites aloud so persistence and perseverance
may pay off yet. I have a childlike
optimism, idealism and hope that despite numerous obstacles, rejections and
disappointments is still going strong.
What question didn’t I ask that I should have?
I love the
questions you asked, and the only through line to all this that I missed is my
love for Emily Dickinson, the poet. The Belle of Amherst, the one woman show
about her was my senior acting project at Northwestern University and as I
performed the show certain lines impacted me for life....my mission statement
is “A word is dead when it is said, some say, I say it just begins to live that
day.
I met Julie
Harris, the actress who played Emily in this show to much acclaim and one of
the actors who I long admired and one of the reasons I became an actress at the
time I was working on this show and also named my daughter for Emily
Dickinson.
Last year I got my
first tattoo of an open book with my children’s initials in Emily Dickinson’s
handwriting.
My next may be a
mermaid,
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Fabulous interview! And Nili used to practice her storybook telling skills on me, her kid sister. She was an excellent reader, particularly when reading the Monster at the End of this book, which scared the crap out of me.
ReplyDeleteNili, I am so impressed by the way you have used your many skills to create The Storybook Mom. As a lifelong teacher, reading specialist and school administrator, I know just how powerful your approach to engaging children in the joy of reading is, no matter their age. Many teachers and parents could learn so much from you about ways to engage their children by understanding the value of having fun when reading aloud. Thank you for sharing your story.
ReplyDeleteI'd also like to add that your parents certainly impacted you and your sisters love of the written word as one of you became a professional writer who loves reading and writes beautifully and often with great humor; another sister works with a government program giving children with less the opportunity to gain the pre-scool skills necessary for success in reading and writing; and then you who brings such joy to reading through oral presentation. What a wonderful gift to pass down to your children.